Service
Addiction recovery coach UK
Identity-level recovery coaching for men across the United Kingdom.
Why this work
What this is, in plain language
Addiction recovery for men across the UK that goes deeper than abstinence. Most rehabs and twelve-step rooms get you stopped. This work is for the longer phase — becoming the kind of man who doesn't need to start again.
How it works
What the work actually looks like
Online one-to-one sessions weekly or fortnightly. We work with what the substance or behaviour was doing for you, not just the behaviour itself. Suitable as deeper work alongside or after treatment, not in place of medical care.
Who it's for
This work is for
- Men in recovery from alcohol, porn, gambling or compulsive behaviour
- Men who have been through rehab or twelve-step and need the next layer
- Men who keep relapsing despite knowing what they should do
- Men who want recovery to mean a different life, not just a stopped one
What changes
What tends to change
- Recovery that holds because it's rooted in identity, not willpower
- Honest contact with what the addiction was protecting
- A life worth being present for
Frequently asked
Common questions
Are you a replacement for treatment?
No. I work alongside medical care and twelve-step or SMART communities, not instead of them.
Where I work
Local pages
Online across the UK, in-person in and around Canterbury. Find your area below, or see all locations.
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Other ways I work
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Identity-level recovery work for men whose drinking, porn, gambling or compulsive behaviour has gone past the point of managing it.
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Newsletter
Letters from the work
Occasional, honest writing on trauma, fatherhood and recovery. No funnels, no sales sequences. One email when there is something worth saying.
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Between sessions
Where the work continues
Included with coaching
The Coaching Portal
Every client gets access to the Coaching Portal, a private space for session prep, reflections, progress and resources between our meetings.
What you can expect
Honesty about what this is — and what it isn't.
What coaching here is
The work itself
- A confidential one-to-one space for the things you don't say out loud.
- Trauma-informed, body-aware, paced for nervous-system safety.
- Practical — built around the change you actually want.
- Held by years of work alongside men in addiction, prison, homelessness and recovery.
What it isn't
The lines I won't blur
- Not therapy or counselling, and not a substitute for clinical care.
- Not legal advice, and not representation in court.
- Not a quick fix, a guru, or a programme that promises a fixed outcome.
- Not a place where you'll be judged, shamed, or sold something you don't need.
Transparent pricing. No hidden fees, no upsells. Every option, what it includes and what it costs, is published.
See pricing →About the author
Jaymes Cadby
Trauma-informed coach for men, working out of East Kent and online across the UK. Jaymes writes from a combination of lived experience and years of one-to-one work with men navigating childhood trauma, addiction recovery, fatherhood, separation and the long road back to themselves.
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